Talk about 4 things. Justification: we make a judgment that we have been wronged, hence we need to retaliate. If we think about it, we have justified each of our actions (or inaction). Sometimes we say it was necessary or unavoidable. Sometimes, we assume an impact which may or may not really happen. Alternatives: typically, violence seems to be the only alternative. This comes out of a lack of emotional control, where we are so much into the emotion that we cannot perceive any other option. Consequences: whether we can live with the consequences of the act. In fact, if we are afraid of further retaliation, we may not act. Ability: do we have the confidence to use our body or a substitute (knife, gun or another person) to achieve the results. When we talk about motivating others, the justification is the end result (either we want to avoid the pain or go towards pleasure) or what we want to get the person to do. How we achieve the end result, are our ...
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